You're Living Someone Else's Version of Your Life (And It's Exhausting).
You’ve built a life that looks fine from the outside.
Responsible. Successful. Always doing the “right” thing.
But inside? It feels like you’re performing someone else’s script.
Every day carefully managed, every choice weighed against expectations, every decision double-checked through someone else’s lens.
You’re tired of apologising for what feels true in your bones.
You long for steadiness, for decisions that feel like they come from you.
What if you could live without the performance? Not louder, not bolder — just steadier.
Here’s what happens when you live too long by everyone else’s script:
🤍 Every decision feels like second-guessing.
🤍 Guilt creeps in when your wants don’t match others.
🤍 You say yes when you mean no.
🤍 You apologise for the very choices that would steady you.
The hardest part? After a while, you forget what your own voice even sounds like.
If that feels uncomfortably familiar. You’re not alone.
Here’s Where it Changes.
Not with vision boards. Not with louder declarations. But with something gentler.
For more than 30 years, I’ve written letters to my gran, to myself, to the quiet part of me that needed a place to land.
Those letters carried me through grief, love, reinvention, even whole new countries.
That’s where transformation lives: in the words you share when you feel completely safe.
This is my gift to you.
Through letters, I hold up a mirror until your own voice begins to sound clear again.
Steady, unhurried, entirely yours.
Image this…
🤎 It’s Tuesday morning. You’re about to say yes to something out of habit and instead, you pause. You ask yourself: what do I really want? And you trust the answer.
🤎 Someone invites you into work or obligations that don’t fit. You reply, gently but firmly: that doesn’t work for me. No drama, no guilt. Just truth.
🤎 By Sunday, you realise you’ve spent a whole week making choices that feel like you. Not for approval. Not for applause. Just because they’re yours.
The background noise of “am I doing this right?” has gone quiet.
You know you are, because it feels steady in your bones.
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I was pleasantly surprised, I was sceptical. The mentoring helped me find clarity I didn't know I was missing. For the first time in a while, I made decisions for me, and I didn't feel guilty about it." - Jen, Beta Participant
This isn’t about “fixing” you.
It’s about walking beside you while you remember who you’ve been all along.
How We Find Your Voice, Together.
Over six weeks, we’ll explore:
🌱 Time as Treasure: Permission to want what you want. Protecting your hours, saying no without guilt, and giving language to the desires you’ve kept quiet.
🌱 Standing in Your Worth: Unlearning who you’re not. Noticing whose expectations you’ve been carrying, and remembering your quiet potential without apology.
🌱 The Courage to Learn Again: Living curiousily. Returning to growth as a lifelong practice, remaining alive through curiosity and renewal.
🌱 Listening Inwards: Discovering your authentic voice. Trusting intuition, finding steadiness in silence, and letting your own words guide you home.
🌱 Circles of Support: Choosing without apology. Knowing who steadies you, surrounding yourself with those who reflect your best back to you.
🌱 The Beauty of Mess: Taking brave, quiet steps forward. Allowing imperfection, embracing the cracks where growth begins, and moving gently anyway.
Each week, you’ll receive a personalised letter from me, with prompts, reflections, and gentle questions.
You’ll reply in your own time, in your own way.
Slowly, steadily, your authentic voice begins to re-emerge.
If nothing shifts, life carries on looking fine on the surface…
But inside, you’ll still feel like a stranger in your own choices.
Still apologising. Still over-explaining.
Still waiting for permission that never comes.
Six months from now, you could be exactly where you are today.
Or, you could begin writing your way back to yourself.
Six weeks of letter-based mentoring.
One steady return to yourself.
What’s Included:
📝 Foundation Call + Journal Guide: to begin your journey with clarity.
💌 Six Letter Exchanges: personalised prompts, reflections, and gentle guidance from me.
💫 Personal Stories & Insights: I’ll share experiences when they illuminate your own path.
🫂 Letter-Writing Support: simple tools for when words feel stuck (voice notes welcome).
🕊️ Gentle Accountability: a weekly rhythm that keeps you moving without pressure.
🪴 A Personalised Closing Reflection: to help you see how far you’ve come.
Investment: $336 (pilot price)
✨ Payment plan available.
But What if…
“What if six weeks isn’t enough?”
Most women feel shifts within the first two weeks. Six weeks gives us space to practise new patterns. And if you want to go deeper, you can extend.
“What if I’m not good at writing?”
That’s perfect. This isn’t about being a “good writer.” It’s about honesty. You can write stream-of-consciousness, bullet points, or even send me a voice note. What matters is truth, not grammar..
“What if I don’t have big problems?”
This isn’t crisis coaching. It’s for women who feel… unsettled. Like something’s missing. That quiet discontent matters, and it’s exactly what we work with.
“What if I’m too busy?”
Your letters will take around 20 minutes a week. If you can find a pocket of time to breathe, you can do this. And if you feel too busy to write… that’s a sign this might be exactly what you need.
From My Heart to Yours.
“My Darling Girl” ( as my Gran would say)
This isn't about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering the woman you already are, beneath all the expectations.
I’m not here to push you to be louder, bigger, bossier. I’m here to walk beside you as you return to your roots and find the pace that feels steady in your bones.
If you're reading this, you're already braver than think.
So here’s my invitation:
Write to me. Tell me where you are, and what you’re longing for. I’ll write back from the mountains with thoughts, questions, and gentle next steps.
✨ Start my journey home to myself.
From the quiet of the mountains, walking beside you.
